Do the people in your life raise you up, or bring you down? Sometimes we end up spending time with people because we're in the same classes, or work together, or live by each other. But not all friendships are actually good for you.
What kind of person do you want to be? What kind of choices do you want to make in your life? Once you know the answers to these questions, the next step is to surround yourself with people who have your same set of values.
We are so strongly affected by the people that we talk with every day. It can be much easier to be around people with lower moral standards than yours. People who make bad choices in their lives make excuses, and rationalize their behavior. They'll do the same thing for you. They'll tell you why it was okay that you did something that you know you shouldn't have done. And then you will choose to believe their words, and continue to make bad choices.
The people you choose to surround yourself with should make you want to be a better person. They should help you reach new heights in your life. They shouldn't be afraid to tell you if you're making bad choices. They wouldn't do this to criticize you, but out of concern for your well-being.
Think about the people in your life. Do they make you want to be a better person? If they don't, think about replacing them. Every day of your life gives you another chance to correct any mistakes you've made in the past. Each day is a new day, where you get to choose what kind of life you're going to live, and what kind of person you're going to be.
What will your choice be? And who will you choose to have with you?
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